February 1, 2010

Speaking. Listening.

Communication is important whether it is with teachers, friends, or working with a group of your peers. Though the interactions may all be different, the principles are much the same.

Initiate discussion. Be bold. Open-ended questions encourage people to talk more about themselves. Open conversations lead from one topic to another so you're likely to learn more about each other.

Be aware of non-verbal communication. Sometimes what you don't say makes more of an impression. Folded arms, facing away from someone, and fidgeting communicate negative messages. Be sure that you allow enough personal space and smile!

Eye contact shows that you are interested and serious about what someone is saying. Try not to look over or around them; that communicates boredom, disinterest, and a feeling of "there must be someone better out there to talk to." Consistent eye contact communicates confidence and connection.

Listen. Allow your brain to absorb and really listen to what a person is saying. Pay attention to the conversation.

Ask questions. Be interested! Inquire more about the topic; add your own personal experiences. If you don't know much about the topic, change it!